It was indeed an interesting time.
I had actually known the alpha man “D” longer than I had known my than ex-wife. “D” had always seemed to be physical attracted to the same type of women (body types) that I was physical attracted to. He was always a big flirt, he was an arrogant bold confident man when it came to his perceived sexual capabilities and was not too concerned about what anyone thought when it come to his expressive side. While he and I got along, I would have considered him a friend yet was always cautious of his motivations. He flirted along with making bold advance on a few of the women that I had dated before I married my first wife and he even went on to marry a woman that I had previously dated.
During the time I was married, “D” was in the Army (Airborne) so our conversations were limited/restricted due to deployments and such. During a series of conversations that “D” and I were having, we were catching up on current events at which time we both had discovered our respective relationship status changes. My than wife and I had recently divorced although we remained good friends. “D” shared that he and his wife were in the process of getting a divorce although it was not a friendly divorce. So as luck would have it, he “D” was free to date and so was my ex-wife. Considering our overall history, “D” attraction to the same type of women I tended to be attracted to and his knowledge of the lifestyle in which my now ex-wife and I led while we were married it was not a surprise when he requested that I introduce the two of them. As each was in different State (NC/GA) at the time, the initial introduction was done over the phone. They got to know each other via the phone and each requested that I provided some of my own insights on the other.
It was a privilege to be able to introduce the two of them via the phone and to follow up that initial introduction with the face to face (dinner at my place), bring the two of them together. Yes I cooked the dinner, severed the adult beverages, and gave them space together to know each other. As I mentioned in the initial post, I was able to witness their relationship develop from the first conversation, to the first time they had sex together (yes that was in front of me), to hearing about their swinging activities after they married. With that said, from the time they met each other face to face (dinner at my place) to the time they married, they would spend frequent weekends at my townhouse as a couple. On some of those weekends in which they spent at my townhouse, “D” was also able to maneuver his way into the panties of my than girlfriend “A” with my ex-wife’s support.
As to your questions; I did not consider it difficult, initially I considered it a privilege to introduce the two of them. I actually had known “D” longer than I had known my ex-wife, so there was a bit of a history already there which is indeed a bit of a story itself. The two of them were a good match overall, my ex-wife had submissive tendencies and “D” had always been a clear alpha. They clearly had chemistry outside and inside of the bedroom.
Being witness to the non-sexual chemistry, the flirting, the subtle touching was great to see. When the opportunity presented itself to actual watch them the first time they actually had full on intercourse was amazing. I am not sure which one of them made the discussion to make their first time together in my place and or in front of me. Maybe it was “D” way of showing his dominance over me, as this would be the second woman that was previously with me that he had now been with sexually. My ex-wife also let me know in “D” presence that he was an amazing lover and that he took her the way that she liked to be taken by a man. It was an exciting, humbling and even a bit humiliating in some ways all at the same time. On some of those weekends that followed in which the they spent at my townhouse, “D” was also able to maneuver his way into the panties of my than girlfriend “A” with my ex-wife’s support making it three women in which he had been with that were my current or prior. My ex-wife and her new lover “D” did not hold back verbally, put on a show at times and it all lead to an interesting time…
